What’s the value of your time? Sometimes it flies by without you paying it to much attention. Some say that using your free time to connect with others is the best value for your life long satisfaction. But what if you have a hard time connecting with others on a more intimate level. It can be hard for introverted folks to place themselves in vulnerable circumstances. Maybe a deeper look into our inabilities is required.
What inabilities? Well the best way to see what we are bad at is to see what people who are good at it do. So what does it take to form long lasting relationships that are meaningful. It takes a combination of communication skills, empathy, and a genuine interest in others.
Communication skills can best be developed by practicing with others and while it may be hard to find others willing to help if you are honest and sincere in asking people will be open. In your practice its important to be open to feedback from others. You can also read books about this to better refine your communication style.
Empathy Is a bit harder to define into practical solutions but being open, actively listening, understanding the feelings of others and considering their emotions while putting yourself in their shoes all help build a deeper connection.
Genuine interest comes down to you and what you value. If you value trust, supportiveness, patience and responsibility then you are well on your way.
Where do you think you lack or exceed in your relationships with others?
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